I would like to try to look at a very frequent situation, the one in which there are often kids who are sick but live their request of help as a defeat. In organic medicine it doesn’t happen: I feel bad, my leg hurts and I go to the orthopaedist and there is nothing to be ashamed of. (This perhaps explains why the DSA – Specific Learning Disorders, which is much discussed on this blog, are so widely and uncritically accepted, after all they are now considered organic disorders).
But if I feel bad psychically, just the idea of going to the psychotherapist is often experienced as a failure of one’s life, something to hide without thinking that getting psychically ill is a specifically human characteristic.