{"id":8155,"date":"2026-07-10T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-07-10T03:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.papillon.center\/?p=8155"},"modified":"2026-07-09T12:13:27","modified_gmt":"2026-07-09T10:13:27","slug":"pause","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.papillon.center\/en\/blog\/pause\/","title":{"rendered":"PAUSE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pause is a strange term. It may mean catching your breath, then leaving again. But it can also mean stop, it can mean enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cwe&#8217;re on break!\u201d in the office it&#8217;s cool\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>in a love story\u2026a little less<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026and in psychotherapy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s just one key, two vertical bars. 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